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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
Singer Jung Eun Ji!
(Jung Eun Ji, the versatile vocalist)
- Daniel! - Daniel!
(Daniel Lindemann, the gentleman from Germany)
He's bowing to everyone.
(He's a polite young man.)
The members of the global idol group IZ*ONE, Won Young and Ye Na!
(Standing up)
- Hello. - Hello, we're IZ*ONE.
Eun Ji greeted wrong from the start.
She could've said hello while sitting down, but she stood up.
- Everyone else stood up. - So everyone else stood up.
- I once sat at the end. - Right.
I was envious...
- of the star who said hello first. - I see.
I wonder how he will say hello. All right.
The funniest comedian, Byun Ki Soo!
(Byun Ki Soo, the funniest comedian)
- That was good. - Life is unfair...
when you think about Eun Ji.
You even produced your songs this time, right?
Yes. I tried it for the first time,
and it was more fun than I thought.
- Could you sing a bit for us? - Sure.
(Let's trust her and listen.)
("Being There" by Jung Eun Ji)
(I didn't realize it)
(When you were with me)
(The song is to comfort the youth.)
Great.
(It's a time of healing.)
- She has such a beautiful voice. - Indeed.
As you know, Eun Ji has a beautiful body...
maybe because she's an idol singer.
- But she enjoys drinking alone. - That's true.
What do you usually drink?
- I like soju and beer cocktail. - That's nice.
Have you not tried traditional Korean wine?
For example, Gyeryong Baekilju or Samilju.
You should try them.
- Daniel knows... - They're really good.
I've tried jeongjong.
Are they famous in Korea?
- Yes, very much so. - Really?
- I see. - I see.
He knows a lot about Korean culture.
I met Daniel on TV shows many times.
He likes Korean culture so much that he's called Korean Uncle.
I like hiking.
- I see. - When I go hiking,
I visit a Buddhist temple and go to a 24-hour spa...
to take a bath afterwards.
Do you go to a spa after visiting a Buddhist temple?
Yes. It sounds like...
something that elderly people would enjoy.
I enjoying eating eundan these days.
- Eundan? - Eundan?
(The eundan we know?)
You eat eundan?
An elderly man I know recommended me, so I tried it.
I liked it, so I buy it often at a convenient store.
- Eundan is good. - It's good indeed.
Could you say hello to everyone in German?
Hello, everyone. I'm Daniel.
I'm happy to be here at KBS...
to talk about different topics with you all today.
I hope we will have a great time together. Thank you.
- "Thank you." - "Thank you."
(That's cool.)
A German man spoke German,
- and we applauded him. - Exactly.
At the comedy festival held in Busan,
Ki Soo introduced his swearing show, which no one tried before.
Do you swear in your show?
Yes. I wanted to do a show for adults...
that only people over 19 can watch.
There's a series of swearing shows.
That's right.
- I started with "New Swear Show". - "New Swear Show".
And then I did "Half Body Bath Swear Show", "Beach Swear Show",
"Therapeutic Forest Walk Swear Show",
and "Greedy Swear Show".
- You appeared on my radio show too. - Yes.
Tell everyone memorable stories you read on the radio show.
Many shows are broadcast live on Chuseok...
because of the traffic report.
- Someone said he needed to... - The traffic is bad on Chuseok.
go to the bathroom,
and then we got similar messages from 100 other people.
I thought I should calm them down.
I said, "I'll play a song for you to empty your mind."
"'She' by Elvis Costello."
The show was being broadcast live.
We got text messages that they peed in the car because of the song.
(The listeners found peace of mind thanks to him.)
- He's hilarious. - However,
we're talking comfortably,
but the members of IZ*ONE must be nervous right now.
This is your first appearance on a variety show, right?
- Is this your first time? - Yes.
You must be nervous.
Won Young is the winner of a very intense competition.
I watched the show. She was awesome.
Won Young, how old are you?
- I'm 15 years old. - My goodness. She's 15?
(She was born in 2004.)
Goodness gracious.
- Right. She's in 8th grade. - She's in 8th grade.
- Yes, I am. - So many people love you.
What's your secret of winning their hearts?
I tried to show my special talents.
Could you show us?
(Please show us.)
I'll imitate Donald Duck.
(Shaking her head)
Can you show us one more thing?
I can make a water drop sound from my cheek.
(A refreshing sound comes from her cheek.)
My goodness.
(The four comedians have never seen this kind of skill.)
I don't envy her, but it's interesting.
It's interesting.
We have three stories today.
Show us the keywords please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"The Scary Women".
"Mom Is the Culprit".
"The Crazy Thing Called Love".
"The Scary Women".
There are two elder sisters in this story...
of a boy, who is a student.
- Ki Soo, play his oldest sister. - Okay.
And Eun Ji, please play...
- his second oldest sister. - Okay.
Hello. I'm Yu Young Jun,
and I'm 18, the fearless age.
However, there are scary people whose voices alone...
scare me so much.
"Hey, Yu Young Jun!"
"Hey, come over here right now. Do you have a death wish?"
My gosh.
(She's scary.)
- What was that? - The role suits her.
Isn't it a perfect role for her?
I never act like this in real life.
- Please don't get a wrong idea. - It sounds like you do.
They are none other than my elder sister,
who are 27 and 28.
"Hey, don't make noise while eating, okay?"
"Gosh. Why does he annoy me so much?"
"Just don't do anything."
- My sisters... - She's good.
get angry at me whenever they see me.
They even did this too.
"Hey, give me your phone."
"No. Why would you go through my phone?"
"How dare you? I'm your elder sister. Go bring your phone now."
They went through all the photos and text messages...
- on my phone. - Oh, no.
- What's wrong with them? - "Oh, you have a girlfriend?"
"Have you held her hand yet?"
"It's none of your business."
"You're too young to date. Just break up with her, you brat."
- What? - What?
The script didn't say, "you brat".
Was it an improvisation?
She improvised and added "you brat".
Whatever I do, I have to get my sisters' permissions first.
What's really hard to understand is that my sisters...
are married with children.
- Why are they so obsessed with me? - Why are they like that?
Please help me escape from my sisters.
(I want to escape from my sisters.)
Eun Ji, do you have any sisters?
I have a brother, who is eight years younger than me.
- Your little brother is very young. - Do you talk like that to him?
- No, I never act like this to him. - Really?
How do you talk to him at home?
"Min Gi."
"Can you come here for a moment?"
"Min Gi, get lost."
My sister used to swear at me and hit me with a broom.
But when she got a call from her boyfriend, she'd change.
- "Hello." - Right.
I couldn't stand it.
I wanted to tell her boyfriend.
Let's meet the person who sent this story. Please come out!
(Who has angry and nosy sisters?)
(Yu Young Jun)
(His scary sisters burst out laughing.)
Hello. My sisters are giving me a hard time.
I'm... I'm Yu Young Jun. I'm 18 years old.
- He's nervous. - I know.
You look a little intimidated. Are you nervous?
Is it because your sisters are watching?
It's because my sisters are watching.
How hard of a time does your sisters give you?
- They're your sisters, after all. - They're his sisters.
My sisters are 9 and 10 years older than me.
They're obsessed with me.
My oldest sister got married three years ago.
They live near where I live.
She calls me every day and asks where I am.
She even tells me to send pictures...
to prove that I'm home.
You said they even go through your phone.
- It's unacceptable. - He's 18.
When I'm using my phone, she tells me to give it to her.
She goes through my photo albums and social media.
- She goes through everything? - Yes. Even my messenger.
She checks my call history too.
- Can't you set a passcode? - Exactly.
Even if I do,
they watch me from behind...
when I unlock my phone.
(His passcode is not a secret.)
But these days, you can use fingerprints instead.
Even if I use my fingerprints, when I'm sleeping,
- they... - Like this?
- Yes. - Really?
(Let us borrow your finger while you sleep.)
What if you use the iris recognition function instead?
When he's sleeping...
- I haven't thought about that. - Will they force open his eyes?
(They might actually do it.)
Don't you think your sisters behave that way...
because they love you so much?
When I make new friends,
my sisters order fried chicken and tell me to invite them over.
It's to assess my new friends.
When they're gone, they tell me, "That friend didn't look nice."
"Stop hanging out with him."
That's too much.
When I have a girlfriend...
(Hesitating)
They ask me how far we've gone.
(How far have you gone?)
My goodness.
- They ask you that? - Yes.
(They ask their 18-year-old brother inappropriate questions.)
Do you tell them everything?
No, I can't.
Tell them all the details just to embarrass them.
I couldn't do that.
- You couldn't? - No.
Is there a lot you can't tell them?
(He's so funny.)
(No comment)
Then how do you answer them?
"Why do you ask me that? Do I have no privacy?"
- That's what I tell them. - How do they react to that?
"You're being rude again."
- "How dare you talk back?" - Have you ever broken up...
with a girl because of them?
- Yes. I did. - Oh, my.
What happened?
I was walking my girlfriend home,
and we ran into my sister. My sister told my girlfriend,
"Don't stay out so late."
My girlfriend couldn't take it anymore.
Do you have a girlfriend right now?
- No, I don't. - Are you just saying that?
- No. I really don't. - Okay.
Why don't you have a girlfriend?
To be honest, because my sisters are so scary,
I'm getting scared of all girls.
(He's getting scared of all girls.)
What is your oldest sister like?
She's a bit short-tempered.
What about your second oldest sister?
If someone doesn't obey her, she ignores that person.
(He glances at her.)
- She ignores that person? - If someone doesn't obey her?
Do they hit you too?
They hit me sometimes. Particularly when I make a mistake.
If I'm eating nosily,
they say, "Stop being so noisy", and hit the back of my head.
- Oh, my. - Oh, my.
- They hit you while you're eating? - Yes.
You shouldn't bother a person who is eating.
They ruined my innocence too.
What did they do?
- They ruined your innocence? - They ruined your innocence?
When I was a kid, I believed in Santa.
- Once... - Santa.
But they told me, "Santa doesn't exist. The presents are from Mom."
- My goodness. - I did that too.
(Sorry, Min Gi.)
As a kid, Yu Hui Yeol wanted Santa to give him a lot of presents.
So he hung stockings instead of socks,
and his mom filled them with mandarins.
The next morning, he was terrified.
Don't imagine it.
It shattered his fantasy.
In addition, my sisters once dressed me up like a girl.
My sisters did that to me too.
They made me take a weird pose and took pictures of me.
- Is that the picture? - Gosh.
He's so cute.
They put blusher on him.
They put lipstick on him too.
(Please leave me alone.)
Let's meet his scary sisters.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who are the sisters that treat their brother badly?)
Which of you is older?
- I'm older. - Who is short-tempered?
- You're short-tempered. - Hold on.
- The oldest sister... - She looks familiar.
appeared last week as an acquaintance, right?
She appeared with the guy who wants to become a singer.
(She made a short appearance as an acquaintance.)
When I told Young Jun about my appearance,
he said he had a worry and wanted to apply too.
I wanted to hear what he was worried about.
- That's why I'm here. - Okay.
Is everything your brother said true?
I admit that I'm obsessed with him.
My husband says,
"You're crossing the line. Stop being so obsessed."
But my brother...
still looks like a baby to me.
Right.
Is that why you call him every day...
and make sure he's home?
It's because he lies too often.
(He lies too often.)
What's funny is, although he lies so often,
- he's not good at it. - He gets caught.
- Yes. One day, - It shows.
we went over to him.
When we were leaving, he must have wanted to go out too.
He suddenly said he had left his phone at the internet cafe.
But on his way out, he took his phone out of his pocket.
- My goodness. - He's clumsy.
- He's naive. - So after he went out,
we decided to follow him to catch him in his lie.
My sister and I followed him in a car.
- Secretly? - Yes.
From a distance, we saw him meet his friends.
We went near him, opened the window, and said, "What are you doing?"
- Gosh, that's scary. - Like a detective.
- Was he startled? - "What are you doing?"
He was so startled. When I looked at his face,
it was so funny.
Do you find that funny?
- Right. - How surprised were you then?
I wanted to run away.
- You didn't notice them? - I'm a bit dense.
- Did you think it was perfect? - Yes.
- Lying that you left your phone? - Yes.
Habits are scary.
I saw a student work as a part-timer at a restaurant.
He filled a glass with water...
and took a sip before he served it.
- Just like he does at home. - Right.
(Habits are scary.)
Your brother says he broke up with his girlfriend because of you.
I told him to break up. It's because...
she didn't appear to behave properly.
My brother is still young.
He is not good at judging people yet,
in my opinion.
I'm a bit like him too.
When I met a guy,
I used to cling on to him so desperately.
I would beg them not to break up. But now that I'm married,
I know it's not a big deal.
Are you going to appear next week too?
Your husband might get hurt when he sees this.
He won't get hurt when he sees this on TV,
he's sitting right next to her.
(It's okay. Marriage is reality.)
I think he should go through it all on his own.
I let my brother decide things on his own...
except when he's doing something seriously wrong.
Right.
When you go up a mountain,
you don't go straight to the top.
When you meet an obstacle, you make a turn.
After making many turns, you finally reach the top.
Even though it takes more time,
you get to know the whole mountain...
because you've gone through it.
If you only take the right paths, it might be faster,
but you won't learn about the whole mountain.
For example, he'll experience a lot of difficulty in the military.
You should join the army with him.
Right.
But you can't.
You shouldn't go through his phone and stuff.
I go through his phone...
to find out what kids these days do.
It's very fun to see the messages he exchanges with girls.
It might be fun for you, but that is his privacy.
It's just for fun. I can see so many funny things.
Once, there was a girl who often talked to my brother.
But she suddenly said, "I want us..."
"to go back to..."
- Just friends? - "being just friends."
- Suddenly? - My brother said, "Okay."
And they just kept talking.
(Kids these days are so cool.)
Really?
(It's more fun than dramas.)
What do you think of your brother's worry?
Are you his aunt?
No. I'm his sister.
I understand he might be worried about it.
But we're just concerned about him.
But most people stop caring so much about their siblings...
when they get married.
I think our situation makes us act unusually.
Why?
It seems that there's no one...
that my brother is afraid of at home.
My dad is quite strict,
but he has a job, so he has no time to deal with the problem.
And my mom can't handle him by herself.
Does your brother cause a lot of trouble?
He's a student, but he comes home at 11pm.
And he stays up until 2am.
Did you go to bed before 11pm...
when you were his age?
No, I didn't, but...
I didn't either, but...
What was the biggest problem of your brother?
Smoking cigarettes.
When I found out that he smokes cigarettes,
I was shocked and devastated.
Did you scold him? What did you do?
Well...
She cares about him like his own mother.
- Right. - She's worried about him so much.
But still, you don't have to cry because your brother smokes.
- She had high expectations for him. - I can understand how she feels.
(He feels even more burdened.)
Honestly, I can understand her...
- because... - I don't get it.
Is it like how a mother feels?
Yes. "How can my little brother smoke cigarettes?"
This is what I thought.
It's very different from Germany.
The minimum legal age for smoking is 16 in German.
- For smoking cigarettes? - In high school,
students and teachers smoke together outside during breaks.
Students smoke with their teachers?
(Shall we smoke together?)
You should study in Germany.
- Right. - I'm not recommending it.
(Sorry, but I quit smoking.)
You deserved to be scolded when it comes to that matter.
- Of course. - But you can't understand them?
They get angry at me when I'm not doing anything.
Do they yell at you even when you're doing nothing?
"Why are you doing nothing?"
(They feel guilty.)
"Move your body a little, okay?"
(They get angry only by seeing him.)
Just as I said before, they slapped the back of my head...
because I made noise while eating.
- Because you made noise? - Yes.
Did you throw a tantrum a lot while watching him eating?
The way he eats...
Watching him eat annoys me.
- When he was 5 or 6, - What happened?
my family ate fried chicken together.
Everyone likes drumsticks, right?
I picked up a drumstick, and my mom said,
"That's for Young Jun."
She told me to give it to Young Jun, and I got so angry.
Who would like tough meat?
No one likes tough meat.
She means chicken breast.
Then did everything happen because of a drumstick?
(Did everything happen because of a drumstick?)
- It's the root of the problem. - Well... I'm just saying...
(Leaving tougher meat definitely causes a fight.)
However, you can consider what they did...
as a joke.
I can understand them when it's just a joke.
But I can't bear hearing them saying harsh things...
and swearing at me.
Swearing at you? What did they say?
- They swear at you? - I had a new haircut one day.
When they saw my hair,
they said, "Your hair look stupid."
They said I looked like an idiot and a loser.
Also, I have yellow teeth.
You know how old piano keys are yellow.
So they called me...
- That's mean. - What did they call you?
They called me OP as in Old Piano.
(They call their little brother Old Piano.)
Old Piano.
(Laughing)
(She's laughing hysterically.)
(Are they really my sisters?)
Since he's naive, whenever I tease him,
he just says, "Stop it."
- It makes me want to do it more. - It's because of his reaction.
- I see. - "I'll make you a nickname."
- "I'll call you OP from now on." - OP.
"I'm MC OP."
(I'm MC OP.)
- What does it mean? - Old Piano.
(Yellow teeth)
Do you think you tease him more often than your little sister?
- Or is it your little sister... - We tease him...
in turns.
- He must be stressed out. - It's 2 on 1.
They tease you, but don't make you run their errands, right?
- They make me watch their kids. - Watch their kids?
Yes. It's a serious problem.
I was playing with my friends at an internet cafe.
One of them calls me.
She will ask where I am,
and I'll tell her that I'm playing games at an internet cafe...
with my friends.
Then she'll say, "Are you kidding? Come home right now."
She'll get upset and serious.
It scares me, so I go home.
When I get there, I have to watch their kids.
How old are their kids?
My eldest sister has a two-year-old boy.
I see.
My second eldest sister's children are 6, 2, and 1.
(They have four kids in total.)
Do you like babies?
I used to like babies, but now...
(He couldn't finish the sentence.)
He's tired of it.
- But you're their uncle. - Yes.
They must listen to you since you play with them often.
My sisters hit and tease me...
in front of their kids.
So the kids think I'm a joke.
Of course. That's bad.
- They treat him like their moms do. - They learned from their moms.
They tease me and then run away or hit me.
They're really mean.
"OP, OP."
(They must've learned his nickname too.)
(They passed it on to the next generation.)
But you're their uncle.
You could've scolded them.
I scolded them.
I said, "You shouldn't be disrespectful to me, your uncle."
I will scold them in that way.
But my sisters said,
"Who are you to scold my children?"
- Did they really say that? - That was mean.
- You should've saved his face. - Exactly.
They said, "You'll be dead if you scold them."
- They take away your authority. - When he plays with your kids,
do you compliment him at least? "You're the best."
- "Thank you." - And give him an allowance.
No.
(She laughs out of embarrassment.)
I don't usually compliment him. I always yell at him.
- Do you give him an allowance? - No.
But I often buy him food instead.
Are we living in times of a famine?
It's not like we're going through a famine.
How is everything justified through food?
It's so scary...
that she said watching him eating annoys her,
- but she buys him food. - That's scary.
She buys him food and gets angry.
(She gets angry while feeding him.)
She scares me so much.
- I mean, - He's right.
watching him eating alone annoys her,
- but she buys him food. - But she buys him food.
(Dig in, so I can get angry!)
- She wants to... - I'm so scared.
Isn't that scary?
(He makes sense.)
Since you're his brother-in-law, please be objective...
- as a third party. - Okay.
I think my wife crossed the line.
- You do? - Yes. She disciplines him harshly.
Since Young Jun is a teenager,
he could go astray.
So whenever she treats him harshly,
I play games with him all night long at an internet cafe.
- That's considerate of you. - I try to...
make him better.
She scolds him for making noise while eating.
But she does the same thing.
(She's no different.)
(My brother-in-law is the best. This isn't over.)
I hate hearing people making noise while eating.
She got rid of the habit in several months while dating me.
After that, I ate with her and Young Jun at her house.
She told him off for making noise while eating...
and hit him in the back of his head.
That must've been funny.
"You're not in the position to scold him since you had the same habit."
It is old cow's notion that she never was a calf.
- Right. - Exactly.
- It was like a comedy skit. - In fact...
How does your wife treat you at home?
She never interferes with my business.
- Really? - Yes. She never scolds at me.
I'm from Pohang, so there's no one I know...
in Ansan.
Naturally, I always stay at home.
My wife always says,
"Please go out and have some fun. Meet your friends."
"I don't mind if you sleep out." Whenever she says such things,
I feel left out.
- You do? - Yes.
You could've come on the show for counselling.
Yes, I actually thought of it.
(Pay more attention to me, your husband.)
To be honest, it's more fun to play with Young Jun.
It's fun to play jokes on him and watch how he reacts.
While the three of us play, he does something else alone.
So we go out without him.
(I'm so lonely.)
Shall we meet Young Jun's nieces and nephew?
- Gosh. She's adorable. - She's six years old. She's cute.
- She's six, right? - My goodness.
Look at them.
- They're so cute. - They're cute.
How do you play with all of them?
(Young Jun's eldest sister's son)
- He's her son. - They're adorable.
I think the kids act cute often.
Point where your uncle is. 1, 2, 3.
- Kids, where's your uncle? - Where is your uncle?
They don't care.
- I don't think they know... - They're just excited...
- that their uncle is here. - to see themselves on the screen.
- Hello. - Hello.
Do you play with your uncle often?
Yes.
What do you do with him?
We do choke slams.
(What?)
(Oh, she's an active girl.)
Have you been scolded by your uncle while playing with him?
(Nodding)
What did he say?
Was your uncle scary?
(No)
- She's not intimidated by him. - He got angry, but he wasn't scary.
Will you come to your uncle for a minute?
(It seems she was held in his arms many times before.)
Play with your uncle in a larger space.
- How cute. - He's carrying her comfortably.
- Come with Won Young. - The tall one.
(I don't want to go.)
Hold her hand, or you'll regret when you grow up.
You don't get a chance like this so easily.
(You'll regret later.)
He doesn't want to go to Won Young.
- Young Jun, go bring him. - I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
(Who does he take after to play hard to get?)
Hold your uncle's hand. Play with him here.
(Surprised)
(He suddenly runs across the studio.)
Young Jun, you should hold him.
Make sure this part will be aired.
Be careful. Be careful.
(He's acting warm-hearted.)
(I know how to walk now.)
"Shin Dong Yeob saves a child."
(Shin Dong Yeob saves a child and brags about it.)
- What do you do with them? - Sorry?
Step forward.
Let's hide. Let's hide.
(Let's hide in here.)
(He warms her heart too.)
- She's cute. - Kids love playing this game.
The love this game.
Come on in and hide with them.
They're so adorable.
She doesn't want to.
(She runs into Ye Na's arms.)
- She got used to Ye Na's arms. - She's cute.
You brat, I told you to sit with her.
(Feeling empty and lonely)
You missed your chance.
(Maybe next time.)
I understand that you love your brother very much,
but is there a reason you care that much about him?
In fact, Young Jun is living...
with our stepmother.
Our mom gave birth to him at an old age of 40,
so she passed away while giving birth.
- While giving birth? - Yes. She gave birth to him...
- and passed away the next day. - My goodness.
(In the absence of their mother...)
That's why I am really worried...
about what Young Jun does.
- Because your mother is not there. - That's part of the reason.
That's why we keep obsessing about him.
We want him to do a little better and to meet a little better person.
We want to give him what our mom wasn't able to give.
That's why I am more obsessed about him.
We are worried that people will judge him...
because he doesn't have a mother.
When he was born, you were just 9 and 10,
yet you took care of him.
Right. There was nobody else to take care of him.
Because of him, I experienced changing diaper, feeding baby,
and all the other things that come with raising a child.
(And she was only 10.)
They raised him with the mind of a mother.
I think they want compensation for it.
That is part of it. Our feelings for our brother are complicated.
They feel worse because she passed right after giving birth.
- If she was there when he was... - If he has those memories a baby,
they wouldn't be so obsessed. I understand why his sister cried.
- Right. - It wasn't about the cigarette.
Her tears contained a lot of meanings.
I understand them,
but they try to decide what I should do in the future.
- Even your future. - Yes.
- What do you mean? - I am dexterous.
So I wanted to be an engineer.
My eldest sister told me to make a PowerPoint presentation.
I said, "How can I do that?"
She said, "How can you achieve your dream..."
"when you can't even do that?"
While that was going on, my second sister...
told me to join the army as soon as I turn 20.
When I was young, I wanted to be a rapper.
- Old Piano. - MC Old Piano.
I wanted to be a rapper, but my sisters...
kept asking why I wanted to be a rapper when I was terrible.
They asked, "How can you break in with such talent?"
They lowered my self-esteem.
So I gave up.
Anyone in this world could be a rapper.
With his skills, anyone could be a rapper.
You need a good foundation to begin with.
I don't think he has it.
Last week, there was a man who wanted to be a singer.
(He didn't want to give up his dream of becoming a singer.)
(As long as you work hard, you can be anything.)
(He sang with a nasal voice.)
(I love)
(His "I love you" made everyone feel embarrassed.)
Is he as bad as that man?
He's not that bad. He's not as bad as that.
- Can you rap for us? - Yes.
(She claps her hands.)
("Bang Bang" by HAON)
(He's not bad.)
[VIU Ver] E386 Hello Counselor "When Your Love is Expressed Poorly" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
(Isn't he good?)
(They are slightly surprised.)
(Why is he good today?)
(It's a club over here.)
(The atmosphere is heated up.)
- He has a nice voice. - He's good.
Isn't he good for...
- a high school student? - Yes, he is.
- Right. - Let's work on...
your first album together.
You can be "Ol Pi Chup Chup".
(His name will be Ol Pi Chup Chup.)
That can be your name.
(They awkwardly smile.)
Don't you think meddling with his dream...
- is going over the line? - Right.
What should he do...
for you to stop meddling too much?
I want him to stop being so naive.
I don't want him to look like a fool in front of other people.
That worries me the most.
Do you think you are naive?
Yes. Honestly, I do.
(He speaks out the truth.)
Look at me in the eyes.
You should look at people in the eyes.
Open your chest.
If you act more confident like this,
your sisters might think that you have changed.
Is there something you want them to stop doing?
First of all, I don't like them going through my phone.
- Right. - That's bad.
You should never do that.
He's not that baby brother...
you used to take care of.
It's hard for me to say this.
But after the shoot, I am going to my niece's...
- to drop off nurungji. - She's talking about food again.
I got really nice nurungji from someone.
I will tell you a little bit about my niece.
My brother-in-law, her father...
died as soon as she was born. So she doesn't know her father.
After graduating from college, she stayed with me for six years.
She never did anything I wanted her to do.
I opposed to her marriage. I didn't like her job.
But there was nothing I could do to change it.
I think you two are mistaken.
You use love as an excuse and keep switching your role...
from mother to sister and vice versa at your convenience.
- That confuses your brother. - Right.
Lastly, say something you want to say to your sisters.
I won't act young now. So please have faith in me.
I love you guys.
(He loves his sisters.)
Lastly, please compliment your brother.
When you were rapping a while ago,
I thought you were good.
I won't say anything anymore.
Young Joon, I am always thankful to you.
I will always have your back.
Don't worry about anything. I love you.
- How nice. - This is nice.
Honestly, I don't think this is a worry.
I think the real worry is her husband.
He said he played games all night long...
for his brother-in-law.
But I know that he went there because he was lonely.
I think it's a worry.
In the movie "Skyfall", there was such a quote.
"Age is no guarantee for efficiency,"
"and youth is no guarantee for innovation."
Being older doesn't mean you are more efficient.
Being young doesn't mean you are innovative.
Every person has his own path and his own life.
You can give advice to him, but let him find his own way.
I think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
- 5, 4, - They're happy.
- Look how happy they are. - 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
Let's see how many votes he got. Please reveal the result.
(The result)
Is it over 100?
- It's over 100. - Out of 200 votes,
he got...
(How many people sympathized with him?)
103.
It's not bad.
"Mom Is the Culprit".
Hello. I am a man in his 30s from Daejeon.
Every day, I sweat doing a treasure hunt.
(Treasure hunt?)
Why am I doing a treasure hunt in my 30s?
"Mom, have you seen my white socks?"
"Where is my necktie?"
"Where are my shoes?"
It would be nice if they are real treasures.
But every morning, I go through troubles looking for my things.
It's all because of my mom who puts and shoves things...
in the most random places.
"Mom, where did you put the shirt I bought for my date?"
- "Have you not seen it?" - "Did I put it in the kitchen?"
"Why would you put clothes in the kitchen?"
"Where did the shirt I washed yesterday go then?"
"Is it in the corner of the second floor?"
Whenever my mom touches something, they disappear.
The things I have lost are...
clothes, belts, car key, remote controller,
cell phone charger, and many more.
"Mom, can you put things where they belong? It's so hard to find."
"I don't know. Just look for them yourself."
My goodness.
Now she gets upset at me.
She yells at me.
Please stop my mom...
from creating a bigger mess.
What do you think about this story?
Why doesn't he organize his things himself...
before his mom gets her hands on his things?
- He should organize his own things. - Yes.
He is in his 30s.
Why does he leave it lying around until his mom moves it?
Why ask her about where it is only after she moves it?
You can hear me, can't you?
He's too scared to come out.
What do you say, Daniel?
I think it would bother someone of his age...
if his mom keeps touching his things.
He lost so many of his things.
Let's bring in the son who is struggling...
because of his mom who keeps losing his things.
(Who is the man with a disorganized mother?)
Hello.
(Hwang Jung Gyu)
(Welcome.)
How does your mom organize things?
Her method always changes.
If something was in the living room, she moves it to the master bedroom.
If it was in the master bedroom, she moves it to another room.
So there is no designated area...
- for things. - Right. There's no consistency.
But the socks must be in the sock drawer.
There is only underwear in the sock drawer.
- In the sock drawer? - Yes. In the sock drawer.
Where is the underwear?
In the sock drawer.
In the dressing room, there are things like blender, frying pan,
and many other things.
Since there are so many unnecessary things in there,
it takes up to three hours to find clothes.
It's very complicated.
- You must have your room. - Yes.
Can't you just ask her not to touch anything...
that's in your room?
I have told her that.
I told her to keep my belongings in my room,
but they disappear as well.
After she takes my clothes to the dry cleaners,
she forgets she did that.
You could hide your belongings.
I used to hide them under the desk.
Even when I do that,
she finds them and misplaces them when she mops the floor.
- My goodness. - It's a desperate fight.
(It's unbelievable.)
She isn't a magician...
with a penchant for a vanish trick, is she?
She still makes things disappear.
That's right.
(I hate that.)
I was putting on a suit to go to my brother's wedding.
When it was time to put on a belt,
I realized that it's missing.
I wasted time on looking for the belt.
When I had a blind date,
it takes a lot of time to find my clothes since they're missing.
(The clothes he has assembled are gone.)
Did you fail to get a girlfriend?
That's right. My outfit was hastily put-together.
When I need my cell phone charger...
or a lint remover, they are always missing.
(It's a treasure hunt.)
For how long has she been that way?
- 10 years. - 10 years?
- It has been so long. - That's right.
(How stressful.)
We once had a burglar break into the master bedroom.
A burglar?
- A burglar? - Yes. It happened once.
I bet the burglar didn't find anything.
Since the house is disorganized,
the burglar didn't manage to find anything precious.
- This is a good thing. - "What is this house?"
Upon seeing the state of the house, he must have thought,
- "Another burglar was here." - That's right.
That's hilarious.
The burglar only took a wallet from my dad's pocket...
before he left.
(Even a burglar gave up on our house.)
Let's talk to Jung Gyu's mom...
to find out why she acts this way.
- Hello. - Hello.
I am Jung Gyu's mom.
How does it feel to listen to your son's worry?
I organize his clothes.
I always tell him...
to organize his own clothes,
but he is the worst at it.
He always asks me to find his belongings.
It's different from what we have heard.
Jung Gyu said that he can't find his belongings...
because you are disorganized.
That's wrong. That's wrong.
- Is that wrong? - It happens sometimes.
It happens sometimes.
My eldest son got married in summer,
so I threw away his closet.
Because of that, we have less space for clothes.
That's why I put the clothes...
- in the master bedroom. - I see.
I can't remember where I put everything.
- I see. - I can't remember.
I am forgetful as well.
Even though I am still young,
I say to Tae Gyun, "Hey, Dong Yeob."
That's right.
She forgets that she has eaten and eats again.
Seriously.
- Please give that back. - All right.
Settle down.
Do you think you are good at organizing?
- Do you think that? - Yes. I always organize.
I am a neat person.
I simply couldn't keep up these days...
- because my son got married. - That's the only reason.
Did you find your clothes well before that?
Yes, I did.
That's not true.
- She can't find them. - She can't find her own clothes.
No. She can't find her own clothes.
The entire family struggles because of that.
The entire family has to search for their clothes.
She has been that way for 10 years.
We need to hear from the third party,
but the burglar is the only third party there is.
I wish I can meet him.
Your son said the burglar left...
because the house was so disorganized.
The house wasn't disorganized back then.
The master bedroom has a window.
The burglar put his hand through it...
and took out my husband's clothes...
with a stick.
He took my husband's wallet and pants...
- that way. - He didn't come inside.
No. He did it from outside.
Your version of the story is very different from your son's.
That's why we prepared photos.
- Really? The photos of the house? - Yes.
The photos will let us know...
who is telling the truth.
Where is this?
Your mom's room?
It's my mom's room.
(Jung Gyu's parents' room)
There are a lot of things.
Why are there so many things? Is this the master bedroom?
Yes, it is.
It's not a storage room.
No, it's not.
I see cooking oil!
- Yes. - Isn't that cooking oil?
(Why is there cooking oil in the master bedroom?)
(I got caught.)
Do your parents sleep here?
They don't sleep here.
Since there are too many things, they sleep in the living room.
They should be sleeping in the master bedroom.
- That's right. - Ma'am.
It's hard to believe this happened recently.
What do you have to say about it?
I didn't pile up the belongings.
I couldn't help but store the wedding gifts...
in the master bedroom.
Not only that, Jung Gyu made a mess in order to find his socks.
- Did his socks cause that mess? - Yes.
(That can't be right.)
Ma'am.
There is cooking oil.
What's inside the box with a drawing of a bird?
What's inside it?
Socks and underwear.
I organized them,
but Jung Gyu created a mess.
She always adds that Jung Gyu created a mess.
- Ma'am. - That box has socks and underwear.
She sealed it with tape.
It must be that box.
That's the master bedroom.
We also have a photo of the dressing room.
(The 1st dressing room on the 2nd floor)
- I'm in trouble. - My goodness.
(My goodness.)
(She said she is a neat person.)
(What happened?)
(Embarrassed)
This is driving me crazy.
Ma'am.
Yes?
This is...
Her husband's face turned red.
- This is... - Her husband is cracking up.
Ma'am, this is your dressing room.
(Is this really her dressing room?)
No, it's not the dressing room.
I told you that I threw away my eldest son's closet.
I put the duvets in that room,
but Jung Gyu made a mess...
(Jung Gyu made a mess.)
- in his search of something. - My goodness.
- He mixed everything up. - She blames Jung Gyu.
He mixed everything up.
That's why the room is disorganized.
Ma'am, how long did it take for the room...
to reach that state?
Did it happen in a week?
Of course not.
It has been that way for 10 years.
(She finally reveals the truth.)
Jung Gyu was accurate.
(Laughing)
Jung Gyu was accurate.
(She keeps blaming her son.)
You should tell us the truth.
(Jung Gyu was telling the truth.)
Photos may be misleading...
- since they don't show all sides. - That's right.
So that there is no misunderstanding,
we prepared a video.
(They filmed a video of the second dressing room.)
- My goodness. - That's right.
- Let's watch it. - It's a video...
of the second dressing room.
(The 2nd dressing room on the 2nd floor)
There are three boxes.
There are clothes.
There are clothes all over the place.
- The clothes... - There are a lot of clothes.
My goodness.
(The room is packed.)
There are a lot of boxes.
It's like Dongdaemun.
The room is organized, right?
Right now...
It's like that since her eldest son got married...
and she received wedding gifts.
Jung Gyu also made a mess.
I cleaned up, but...
Did Jung Gyu create a mess?
Both my husband and my son.
(She adds her husband to the list.)
She added her husband to the list.
(She will blame the entire family at this rate.)
There are a lot of clothes in the dressing rooms.
Both sides have rows of clothes.
Did you always have an affinity for clothes?
I ran a clothing shop 10 years ago.
I brought home all the clothes when I closed down the shop.
When I see pretty clothes, I can't help but buy them.
You really like clothes.
That's right.
I put about 100 outfits in the clothing bin.
I donated them.
That means you used to have more clothes.
I have about 1,000 outfits right now.
What?
Is that how many outfits there are in your rooms?
(You wouldn't know what you have.)
(The master bedroom is packed.)
The 1st dressing room we saw also had boxes.
This is the original dressing room.
There are boxes. What's inside those boxes?
Clothes.
- Whose clothes? - Winter clothes.
The family's clothes.
Since there are two dressing rooms,
you should move all of your clothes to one of them.
Then the other room can store your son and husband's clothes.
I used to mark the boxes as my eldest son's and such,
- but they opened everything. - Who did that?
Jung Gyu and my husband did!
My eldest son did it as well.
- I am so upset. - Sons are the worst.
She said you opened up all the boxes...
although they were marked.
When I open my box, my dad's clothes are in there.
- The box had your name. - Inside my dad's box...
That's right. It sometimes holds Mom's underwear as well.
- It's like an event. - That's right.
He is mistaken.
Because there are three men in the family,
I don't keep their clothes separately.
- I keep the winter coats together. - That's right.
- I organize the clothes. - Your underwear was in his box.
I am not the kind of person who misplaces my underwear.
He is mistaken.
Who put it there?
A burglar put it there.
- A burglar put it there. - Ma'am.
He took one and moved one.
If your underwear were in Jung Gyu's box,
who do you think put it there?
I must have put it there.
(Laughing)
- She is carefree. - She is cute.
What are your struggles...
that comes from your mom's ways?
Even when I organize my belongings,
she throws them away.
She has thrown away my 150-dollar sneakers.
- How many times did you wear them? - I wore them six times.
I also buy nice expensive T-shirts.
She has thrown away two of them.
He doesn't wear them.
He always wears the same clothes.
If I put them in the clothing bin,
other people will get to wear them.
(I don't know why he complains when I clean up after him.)
Let's talk to Jung Gyu's dad.
Whose story is correct, your wife's or your son's?
The house is a mess...
because she puts the clothes everywhere.
Your wife said...
you and your sons always go through everything.
I go through everything because I can't find my clothes.
When I go through the boxes, I find my clothes.
- Then I put them on and leave home. - Sir.
Has the second floor always been a dressing room?
No. This has been going on for about 10 years.
- It's been 10 years. - It's been 10 years.
What happened 10 years ago?
(She's embarrassed.)
- 10 years ago... - Before that, we rented it out.
We earned at least 200 dollars.
We could buy nicer clothes with that money.
Do you still want to rent it out?
- I do. - You want to clean up...
- her clothes. - You want to clear it out.
She once put my car keys in the washing machine.
She put our wedding rings and other things in the clothing bin.
You put your wedding rings in the clothing bin?
I put it inside a jewelry box. One year ago,
our house was robbed.
And he took 10,000-dollars worth of jewelry.
After losing 10,000-dollars worth of jewelry,
I wanted to keep things in a safe place.
But when I wanted to find it, I couldn't remember it.
You spread things out...
so that a thief...
- can't find it. - I hid them in places.
- But I couldn't find them. - You wanted to put them...
in safe places, but you couldn't remember where you put them.
(It's hard for us to find them too.)
Their eldest son who married early is here..
Tell us why you got married in a hurry.
Do you sympathize with your brother or your mother?
He's only talking about clothes,
but I have several other requests.
Are there more things?
I think this is the most serious problem.
We have about three refrigerators at home.
- 3 refrigerators? - 3 refrigerators?
There are a lot of foods that are past their expiry dates.
She can't throw them away.
There are things that are three years past the expiry date.
But she won't throw them away because she feels bad.
There are a lot of processed foods.
Whenever I see that, I am worried that...
someone might eat it and get sick.
I feel bad because they haven't been opened.
- You think you can eat them. - Right.
Actually,
we took a photo of their refrigerator.
But she begged us not to reveal those photos.
- She stopped us. - Yes.
We might find socks in the refrigerator.
(It must be worse than the dressing room.)
His cousin came too.
- She visits them. - I thought she was his wife.
Do you sympathize with your cousin?
Before I got married, 20 years ago,
I lived in their house for 5 to 6 years.
- Did you live with them? - Yes, I lived with them.
My aunt used to be very neat...
- and tidy. - I thought so too.
But she ran a clothing store.
That's when she started collecting clothes.
And now she's out of control.
Did this not happen at all before she opened a clothing store?
Yes. It didn't happen. She didn't have this many clothes.
I think she is too attached to her clothes.
- To objects? - Yes.
For example, there is...
a piano he used in the living room.
I have a child, so I want her to give it to me.
But she doesn't want to give it to me.
It's just neglected.
- It's got memories. - Is there...
- nobody who plays piano? - There is nobody.
By the way, she's amazing.
- She's making a deal here. - I know.
I think that's why she came here.
- What else? - She once bought a dining table.
- A dining table. - She should be eating there.
But she just looked at it...
and ate on the floor.
- Why did she not use the table? - She didn't want to ruin it.
- She didn't want to ruin it. - She was afraid it would scratch.
I wanted a nice dining table, so I bought a big wooden table.
A wooden one. Why didn't you use it then?
It turned out to be bigger than I imagined.
- It was too chunky. - There was no space left.
So I just put things on top of it, and we ate on the floor.
You should've given it to someone.
- I did. - Did you give it to someone?
Do you sympathize...
with your cousins?
It's not that I don't understand them.
It's not that. But she's got too much on her plate.
"I can't do it. I can't find it."
They are so used to being dependent on her.
- It's become a habit. - She did everything for them.
I felt so bad for her that I sometimes asked her...
why she is so nice to everyone.
Perhaps she turned to clothes...
- because she felt lonely. - Right.
And that's why she can't throw things away.
10 years ago, you started buying clothes.
How do you feel when you buy clothes?
It feels so good.
- You hang it in your dressing room. - Right.
- It's all piled up there. - Right.
It just gets piled up more.
- Yes. - How does that make you feel?
It frustrates me. It's really frustrating.
I tell myself that I should stop.
(She knows it's not good, but she repeats it.)
There are three men in my family, and they don't help me at all.
- They don't help me at all. - With the chores.
There are things men can do. Like driving a nail.
- They don't do those. - Or lifting something heavy.
We live in a two-story house, but I paint the rooms by myself.
I do everything by myself. Now that I'm older,
I am more forgetful.
I am not as healthy as I used to be. It hurts.
Then my sons say, "You don't work."
"You don't do anything at home. So why are you so messy?"
My goodness.
(They should be thankful to her.)
Whenever they say that to me,
I get really stressed out. Those feelings got piled up.
(She feels dispirited and tired.)
- I hate it. - My goodness.
- You feel depressed. - Yes. I feel depressed.
That's why I keep buying clothes.
You keep comforting yourself with clothes.
(It's the only thing that comforts her and helps her beat depression.)
(Mom...)
- Son. - Did you really tell her...
what she does at home?
When I get home...
Because I get so stressed out at work dealing with customers,
I don't feel like talking to my mom. I just go into my room right away.
You are over 30.
You should never tell your mom that she's not doing...
- anything at home. - Right.
When you get into a habit of saying that,
- you will do the same to your wife. - It just came out.
If you keep saying those things,
like what he said, you will say it to your wife.
- Then we will see you again. - You have to come back.
Of course, it's good for us if there are people with worries.
Did you not know that your wife was depressed?
No. I had no idea.
- Did you only find out now? - Yes.
- Did you know she was depressed? - Not at all.
- Did you only find out now? - Yes.
That's why she got more depressed. Nobody knew about it.
If she had a daughter, she would've talked to her...
- and felt better. - Even if they quarrel.
If you could have a daughter,
would you have a daughter like Eun Ji or me?
(She Looks at Eun Ji.)
All right.
- It's you. - Really?
- Thank you. - Why not me?
(Laughing)
Why...
- My gosh. All right. - She just smiled.
We explained about your situation to an expert...
- and asked for his opinion. - I see.
You would prefer Eun Ji to read it, right?
Please read it for us.
"She might be trying to fill the void and sense of loss..."
"by buying clothes and by seeing things pile up."
- That sounds right. - Yes.
"So pressuring her to organize things might backfire."
"She needs something else..."
"that will make her feel less lonely." This is what he said.
- I think he's right. - Is that so?
(I am sorry, Mom.)
Whether she wants to do it or not,
- she finds work for the family. - Right.
Have you ever expressed your gratitude to her?
"Mom, thank you for everything you do."
No, never. I am too shy.
- You are too shy. - Yes.
- It's his personality. - As you get older,
you should learn to say those things more.
Only then you will be more mature.
Do you remember saying anything sweet to your wife?
I am bad at expressing my emotions.
Why don't you give it a try now?
- Try it. - Look at your wife.
- "Honey." - "Thank you for everything."
- Oh, dear. - You can't already cry already.
She's never heard anything like this before.
Tell her how much you appreciate her...
and how much you love her.
Thank you, honey.
Sir, kiss her on her cheek.
(She's shy.)
Kiss her on her cheek.
(Kissing)
Don't kiss her ear. Kiss her cheek.
(He looks for her cheek.)
- He found it. - How nice.
(Even such small gesture...)
(makes her cry.)
(She has been wanting to be loved by her family.)
Please give the mic to their eldest son.
Who is your mom to you?
(To him, she is...)
I am always sorry to her.
- Do you feel sorry to her? - I never...
got to say I love you to her.
- Right. - Why can't you say it to her?
- Sons are fools. - Can't you say it?
- Can't you say something? - Say something to your mom.
Thank you for raising me. I love you.
- I love you too. - My goodness.
You came here because your mom's behavior frustrated you.
But tell her when you thought she was the best.
That's what she wants to hear.
Thank you for helping me with the store.
Thank you.
It's making me emotional.
- Of course. - Thank you, and I love you.
- Do you love her? - Yes.
- Do this to her. - Mom.
He's giving you a heart.
Take it.
Thank you.
Is this the first time your sons said this to you?
They've never said it before.
Was it your husband's first time to say this too?
(And he put all the blames on her.)
Those sweet words can help her beat depression.
I only bought clothes to feel better.
They are lovely, and I love clothes.
But whenever I feel bad, I go shopping and buy clothes.
I tell myself I should stop.
If my family helps me, I would get rid of them.
I stayed up...
many nights...
thinking about things and tackling it alone.
I haven't received love from my family.
- That's right. - I want to set aside some time...
and travel with my family...
- once a month. That's my wish. - That's good.
(Let's do that.)
Are you willing to cooperate...
if the family members clean up their own spaces...
even if their work isn't perfect?
- Yes. - In that case,
why don't you assign everyone some space to clean up?
I want my husband to clean up the master bedroom.
My sons should help me...
- clean up the dressing rooms... - The dressing rooms.
on the second floor.
You want them to clean up the dressing rooms.
How about the refrigerator?
The refrigerator? I will clean it up.
- Will you clean it up? - Yes.
(The rooms are suffocating.)
(The entire family should help...)
(so that they can have clean rooms and smile.)
Let's start with Ki Soo.
Is it a worry or not?
I am sure clean rooms will make you more cheerful.
I don't think it's a worry.
I don't want you to do everything by yourself.
I hope you would set some time aside...
and talk to your family.
If you have too many clothes, you can give them to me.
I have no clothes.
Okay.
Will you be okay with her dresses?
Okay.
I also don't think it's a worry.
With their trust and attention,
they will be able to solve this problem.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Say what you want to say to your sons and husband.
Now, I am nearing 60.
My body is beginning to ache,
so I hope you will help me.
(We won't push all the chores onto you.)
Let's see how many votes "Mom Is the Culprit" got.
Show us the result.
Currently, the highest score is 103 votes.
(The last digit is 3.)
Did it get over 100 votes?
(Let's see.)
63 votes.
(After the shoot,)
(the entire family cleaned up.)
(The messy dressing rooms...)
(became neat.)
(The master bedroom that looked like a storage room...)
(became a place they can sleep in.)
(We hope the family will continue to clean up together.)
"The Crazy Thing Called Love".
Hello.
(Giggling)
I am a woman in my 30s...
who receives extraordinary love from my dad.
(How cute!)
He is so affectionate that he still uses a pet name...
although I am in my 30s.
(What could be the pet name?)
"You wench!"
(You wench!)
(What did I hear just now?)
"Where are you, you wench?"
"You worthless wench!"
My dad says it's a way of showing affection.
"Wake up, you wench."
"I will pour ice water on you!"
(Are you serious?)
He pours ice water on me to wake me up in the morning.
Is it a prank?
"My daughter, take my love."
Punch, punch.
"Gosh, my back!"
He jumps on me, bites my head,
pinches me, and kicks me.
"Dad, why are you doing this?"
"I love you too much."
"My daughter is so pretty."
I feel like I would die if my dad loves me more.
Please stop my dad...
from expressing his love so violently.
(Dad, stop tormenting me.)
Are your parents affectionate?
I think the culture is different in Germany.
In Germany, the parents show their love...
in the traditional way.
They hug their children and go, "We love you."
"You did a good job today."
In Korea, love is expressed through pranks.
A good Korean friend of mine...
always pinches me and calls me CD...
for "Crazy Daniel".
- CD. - CD.
He calls me CD.
I think it's a sign of affection.
(The Korean sign of affection)
I am not the type to express my affection,
but my parents still give me a kiss.
On your cheeks?
They try to give me a kiss on the lips,
but I stop them.
Is a kiss on the cheeks okay?
No.
- Really? - I don't really like it.
Since when... There is a reason why I ask.
- You have a daughter. - My daughter is in fifth grade.
I always give her a kiss on the cheeks,
but I don't know how long I can continue doing this.
- Tell us. - I know how it feels.
If she refuses, I will be so sad.
I think she will be okay with it when she is in elementary school.
How you kiss makes a difference.
My dad kisses violently.
How does he do that?
"My lovely daughter!"
- He kisses like that. - My goodness.
He does that.
When he approaches me,
I am like, "What is he doing?"
I didn't like it ever since I was little.
Daniel, please escort the person who sent the worry.
(Who is worried about her dad's strange show of affection?)
(Kim Ji Yul)
Does he really call you...
"Worthless wench"?
Does he really do that?
Yes. He uses swear words...
on a regular basis.
The usual repertoire is...
"You dirty wench, you worthless wench."
- "You dirty wench"? - He always says that.
"You dirty wench"?
Most dads call their daughters and go,
"My daughter, where are you?"
(Their heart beats fast.)
(It's a list of rare curses that are hard to listen to.)
"Where are you?"
- It's practically a rap. - It's practically a rap.
He always adds swear words...
- like they are modifiers. - That's right.
He says it's his way of showing affection.
I was sleeping one day in winter...
when he suddenly opened the door to the veranda.
- It must have been cold! - He got a washbowl...
full of ice water,
poured it on me,
and ran away with my blanket.
- You were sleeping. - I was sleeping.
When I am watching TV,
- he comes up and slaps my head. - Why?
Did you chew too loudly?
(There is another person like me.)
"Why did you do that?" "I was bored."
He said that.
- How strong was the slap? - It made a loud noise.
Slap my hand with the same force.
He slaps me like this.
- What else? - We once sat side to side...
- with our legs stretched. - You sat with your legs stretched.
He put his leg on top of my legs.
When I told him to move it,
he put the other leg on top of my legs.
When I told him to move it again,
he suddenly bites and pinches...
my legs and arms.
When he watches a UFC match,
he suddenly twists my arm and does an arm bar.
Why don't you punch him back as a revenge?
Because he is my dad,
I can't bring myself up...
- to do it. - Since it's your dad.
Was your father an athlete?
He is a rank-holder in hapkido.
Then his attack will hurt if he doesn't watch himself.
I get bruises and nosebleeds all the time.
- You are his daughter. - Nosebleeds?
Yes. I bled from both nostrils.
(She bled from both nostrils.)
- My goodness. - It doesn't happen easily.
Because I have scoliosis,
my back hurts a lot.
If I am lying on my stomach,
he runs towards me and jumps on me.
(He jumps on her.)
He almost broke my back...
and ribs. The springs of the bed gave out.
(His strength was enough to ruin the bed.)
When you tell him that it hurts, how does he react?
"I do it because I love you."
My goodness.
"That was hilarious!" He does that.
I don't understand.
Won Young is like, "Why does her dad do that?"
Since when has he been that way?
He used to be...
taciturn and scary.
From the age of 19, I said to him,
"Have a nice day. Come and have a meal."
Those words led up...
to this.
I heard that he played pranks when I was a baby.
He put me on a rock.
- What? - He put me on a rock.
You could have fallen down.
Yes. He put me on a rock.
- He threw me on the bed. - What?
- It's a miracle you survived. - I know.
I can't wait to talk to her dad.
- It's him over there, right? - Yes.
Anyone would know it's him.
Hello.
- Hello. - Please use the microphone.
(Who uses violent expressions of love?)
Your daughter is here to talk about her worry.
Do you understand?
I did everything because I love her.
I didn't think it would be a worry.
I think I became violent...
in my attempt to be someone like a friend.
What kind of a friend swears at her?
It's ridiculous.
I only talk to her that way...
when we are on the phone.
It's a joke.
Then why do you pinch and hit her?
Her reaction is so cute.
(Her reaction is so cute.)
I can't help myself.
So everything is an expression of love.
Yes.
She surprised us the most by telling us how...
you poured ice water on her...
and stole her blanket.
- Didn't it wet the bed? - Yes, it did.
She didn't respond when I tried to wake her up.
I thought for a while and remembered the water bomb...
from TV.
(The water bomb from TV)
- It suddenly came to mind. - He's laughing at the thought.
(This is it!)
That's why I poured water on her face.
Ice water.
He did it because she didn't wake up.
Do you usually plan...
your pranks?
Even during work,
I think about which pranks I should pull today.
"Hometown Legends" still airs.
There is a scene...
in which a ghost appears with hair covering its face.
My second daughter is a hair designer, so she has...
- Wigs? - many wigs in her room.
(Full of wigs)
I put that on and wait next to her.
Then she wakes up after a while.
He's happy. He's very happy right now.
He loves it.
That's not a problem. That's okay so far.
- That's okay. - Right. That is nothing.
Don't you think you're too violent?
It's like you're playing with a son.
I think she's exaggerating.
She was an instructor at the gym.
- What? - She was a trainer for a long time.
- Hapkido? - Yes. She can protect herself.
Why did you leave that out?
Now we understand.
You made it sound like you're a weak daughter.
Were you an instructor?
I was an instructor until four months ago.
But my dad underestimates his power.
It's less painful when he punches me...
because I was trained, but for normal people,
- it's no joke. - Really?
If you don't block it, you won't be able to breathe.
- I know. - We can't get an idea...
- just by listening to her. - I know.
Will you come up to the stage and show us what you do to her?
Come up please.
Come up to the front.
He's playful.
He's not embarrassed.
He's already excited to play with his daughter.
- He's imagining it. - Sit down here.
- I can't wait. - You're watching TV.
- I'm a bit scared. - You're watching TV.
Relax. Just do what you usually do.
I tap her while watching TV.
Then she doesn't respond.
- Then I get up. - You get up.
Your daughter's still watching TV.
I...
(Strangulation)
- Do it. - Do everything.
(He chokes her even harder.)
My goodness.
(The daughter's counterattack)
(She has no choice but to defend herself by pulling his hair.)
She pulls his hair to get out of it.
She just stays still.
Then I put my leg here...
He loves it.
(Hitting)
I push her down like this.
(He pushes her down with his leg.)
(Thump)
- Is that what he does? - While watching TV?
No way. Why would he do that to his daughter?
- To his 30-year-old daughter? - What?
Then what about pulling hair and kiss?
- Biting? - Yes.
- That one? - Don't bite hard.
Don't bite hard.
- Grab her... - Oh, he grabs her ears.
He bites pretty hard.
He's strong.
When do you lock her in an arm bar?
I was watching UFC.
- "UFC." - It came out.
- "UFC." - Didn't you learn hapkido, Daniel?
- Yes. - Didn't you?
I don't want to do it.
Can you come up for a second, Daniel?
- Do what you do to your daughter. - Yes.
- It's pretty serious. - Choke.
Just as you do to your daughter.
- This also excites him. - Yes.
When would you get a chance to choke a German?
(Twitching)
Things you do to your daughter.
Get ready.
(Cracking)
How is it?
It's bearable as a man,
but it won't be easy for his daughter.
Do you think it's an expression of affection?
No.
Really?
He keeps smiling.
I'm scared how he keeps smiling.
- It's frightening. - I'm scared that he keeps smiling.
Oh, my.
(Does it hurt? It's fun for me.)
It scares me how he laughs.
Go back to your seat. What are you doing here?
(He plays a prank on her until the end.)
I think I know what you mean.
The way he shows his affection is too violent.
Did you apply hoping he would reduce it?
- That and... - Is there anything else?
Sometimes he's very stubborn.
He even throws out all clothes.
In the clothing bin?
Then it's a gift box.
I want to move to that town.
- It has everything. - Your house must be clean then.
- We don't have anything. - Oh, my goodness. That's a gift.
- Share your things with them. - Because he threw everything out?
For example, I really like ripped jeans.
If I buy a pair, he's like, "Why is there a cloth?" and throws it out.
What I hate the most is that when he tells me to do something,
and I don't do it, he throws things at me.
- Things? - For example, if he was eating...
a mandarin, he would throw that at me.
If he was eating a jujube, he would throw that at me.
If it's an apple, he'd throw the whole apple at me.
Does he throw anything hard and sharp?
He threw a remote control at me once.
That hit my cupid's bow.
- That's really painful. - What happened?
I got a bruise as if I had cupping done.
- Cupping here? - I got a bruise.
- Like Charles Chaplin? - Like a beak.
While we're eating,
he tells me to get him water, and I tell him to get it himself.
Then he suddenly throws the spoon.
He throws the spoon here and chopsticks there.
Why do you throw things?
My wife leaves fruit in the living room.
I tell her to have some fruit, but she doesn't like fruit.
Then I throw one at her, and she catches it.
When she catches it, I throw two more.
I threw 2 jujubes, and 1 of them hit her.
- He's very happy. - If you throw one, she'd catch it,
so you throw two at a time?
What about the time you threw the spoon for not getting you water?
I was just throwing a tantrum.
Like a child? "I'm not eating."
Yes, exactly.
He acts more like a child every day.
I got him medicine once because he asked me...
after a meal. My dad suddenly opened his mouth.
I said, "What are you doing? You have hands."
He went like this and said, "I have no hands."
- That's cute. - That's cute.
- I want to hear him saying that. - Then...
I...
(Flustered)
You're crazy.
- I want to hear him saying that. - And?
It was just absurd. I wanted to see how far he would go.
I was like, "How old are you, Dad?" And he said, "Three."
(Embarrassed)
How old are you, sir? Let's do it, sir.
(How old are you, sir?)
How old are you, sir?
Three years old.
(Three years old)
- "Three years old." - That's funny.
You are three years old?
Why can't you grab water yourself?
Where are your hands?
It's funny.
Playing pranks on my daughter is very fun.
(It's stressing me out.)
On the other hand,
isn't it better than having a bad relationship with your dad?
I understand it at some level,
but my parents fight a lot because of it.
He does that to his wife too?
- Not just on you? - No.
If my mom's cooking or washing the dishes,
he approaches her. He crawls up to her,
and pulls her pants down.
Your dad? When your mom's washing the dishes?
(Oh, my gosh.)
How old are you, sir?
Then how does your mother react?
- She gets startled. - While washing the dishes,
she gets angry. Then the fight starts.
- She's like, "What are you doing?" - She gets mad.
- She hates it. - Of course.
Or he tries to wrestle with her.
- Arm bar? - Is your mother also a black belt?
No, she's not.
He does the same to my sister.
My sister hates it and gets upset.
Are your mother and sister here too?
No, they're still not in good terms.
- Because of his pranks? - Yes.
- Your mother? - Yes.
- How about your sister? - It's the same with her.
My aunt is here instead of my mom.
- Your aunt? - She's here instead.
- Hello. - His sister-in-law.
Did you know what your brother-in-law is like?
Yes, he does that too me too.
- What? - Even to you?
- Yes. - What does he do?
It's exactly the same.
- Like wrestling? - Yes.
Can you give us details? It's not easy to do that to a sister-in-law.
I know. One time, I went to his house.
He said, "Get me a meal, you witch."
- What? - To you?
So I said, "Who swears..."
"to his sister-in-law?"
And he was like, "What are you doing to do about it?" and laughed.
Other people are stressed out.
Has he ever tried an arm bar on you?
- Like choking. - Yes, everything.
(We're having a hard time because of his excessive prank.)
What do you think his problem is?
I think he's lonely.
Sometimes I wonder if he's emotionally deprived.
My sister goes to work,
and she goes hiking almost every day for fun.
In case of his second daughter, she's pretty taciturn,
and she doesn't react to his pranks.
I think that's why he's obsessed to his first born.
He plays more jokes on her.
Other people wouldn't react to him.
What was your father like?
I was the eldest son of the eldest son's family.
I couldn't play any pranks. My family was strict.
I think that's why I play jokes on my first daughter.
You dreamed of...
a sweet friendly family.
My grandparents passed away at an early age.
I think he didn't get enough love, so I kind of understand him,
but I think it's a wrong way of expression.
Your sign of love could be violent,
but you sometimes go over the line.
That's why your daughter sent her story to us.
If you love her, you should express it in a nice way.
If you do the opposite,
and act violent, she might find it too much,
- and it gives her a hard time. - Yes.
Then does he normally express affection in a sweet way?
- Good question. - He's never said, "I love you".
What?
He's never praised me before.
Whenever I say I want to try something,
he says, "You? Do you think you can do that?"
He speaks like this.
- It's not good even if it's a joke. - That's right.
Also, he always says how much he wishes he had a son.
- A son? - Yes.
Whenever he speaks...
He said it would've been more fun if he'd been there with a son.
Therefore, I once put my dad...
on a TV show.
Pardon? You put your dad on a TV show?
DinDin and Zion.T spent one day with my dad as his sons.
(He spent one day with his virtual sons.)
He seemed so happy.
- Because he had sons? - Yes.
Although they're not his real sons.
Why do you not praise her?
I didn't think it was necessary to say it out loud.
You need to say it for her to know.
I thought my daughter and I could read each other's mind...
only by looking at each other in the eyes.
She could never read your mind like that.
If you keep expressing your feelings like this,
you might ruin your relationship with your family.
You're maintaining the relationship only because your oldest daughter...
plays along with your jokes.
What would you feel if you became distant from her too?
After my daughters get married,
I'd like to go on trips to the wild across the country...
by myself.
- The wild? - Yes.
(He wants to go to the wild leaving his family behind?)
- Just like a gypsy man. - I see.
I want to live a nomadic life travelling around the country alone.
However, a normal dad...
would imagine the things he could do with his son-in-law...
and his grandchildren.
That's what dads normally think of.
The fact that you're thinking of going somewhere alone...
- shows you already have problems... - That's right.
with your family.
My wife and my second daughter...
always come home late.
Since I run my own business,
- I go home early. - I see.
There's no one at home if my oldest daughter isn't home.
So you stay at home alone.
I'm home alone until between 11pm and midnight.
I came to enjoy being alone.
(He is used to being alone.)
You had no choice but to get used to it.
It's not that you wanted it.
Your daughter seems to have gotten emotional...
because of what you said.
(Her dad hasn't showed his loneliness to his family.)
She's worried about her dad. I guess he said he'll go on trips...
after she gets married several times before.
(She didn't take what he said seriously.)
Since your mom often comes home late,
- There isn't no one else. - do you think she makes him lonely?
Yes. I think she's one of the reasons he feels lonely.
But she comes home late because of work. It's not intentional.
It's true that she comes home late because of work.
However, I'm sure she hated it when my dad...
played mean pranks on her.
- Even on her day off... - She went hiking?
Yes. She goes out and comes home late.
Right now, I play along with his jokes...
and bear with the pranks he plays.
But when my sister and I...
get married and move out of our house,
my mom and dad will be left alone with each other.
That's right.
They've already grown distant.
I'm worried they might grow even more distant in the future.
Sir, your daughter wants you to express your feelings...
in an affectionate way,
which you haven't tried before, such as complimenting her.
So do your wife and your youngest daughter.
He's right.
Why don't you express your affection for your daughter?
Show her how you feel in an affectionate way.
You just have to express how you feel.
Showing the feelings you don't have is hard, but it's easy...
Show your affection from today.
- Say how you really feel. - I did...
what I did until now...
because I love you so much...
Call her "my loving daughter".
"My loving daughter".
Say things like, "Thank you for growing up so well."
She knows that you love her, but she's begging you...
to change the way you express your love for her.
You think your family members can see how you feel...
only by looking into your eyes, but they can't.
- They'd never know how you feel. - My daughter, I love you.
I love you so much, my beautiful daughter.
- Of course. - I love you.
(I love you, my beautiful daughter.)
(Touched)
(I'm glad you said that.)
She feels bad for her dad...
because she loves him very much.
(We hope you will protect your love by expressing it with warm words.)
Let's start with Ye Na.
I think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry.
If her dad compliments her and shows his affection for her often,
I think they'll be able to improve their relationship.
I don't think it's a worry either.
While listening to their story,
I thought it wasn't a worry.
But I gave her my vote hoping that you think...
it's a worry.
- Ki Soo. - Because of his swearing habit,
I think it was a worry.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Please show us the result.
It's over 100.
I don't think it's 200.
How many votes did she get?
- Oh, my. - 100 and...
- Is it 0 or 1? - 100 and...
100? 110?
160.
She got a lot of votes.
(160 votes)
It's because there are many women in the audience.
This week's winner is "The Crazy Thing Called Love".
The winner will receive cash prize.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
(Hello will continue to counsel you.)
("La Vie en Rose" by IZ*ONE)